Career Pauses: When Stepping Away Moves You Forward

Why Career Pauses Are More Common Than You Think

In a world that celebrates constant motion, a career pause can feel more like a career disruption. Career pauses happen for many reasons—caregiving, parenthood, burnout, health issues, relocation, or personal loss. At certain times, this pause is something that we choose: At other times, it’s chosen for us due to unforeseen circumstances. In either case, deciding to pursue a career pause is rarely simple or straightforward—and it comes with much thought (Akkermans et al., 2024).

Throughout this article, I use the term career pause intentionally: You often hear the phrase career break, but let’s be real: Caring for a baby, battling health issues, or recovering from burnout is not a “break.” Rather, your career is on pause so you can give your time and energy to another pressing priority. Sometimes, that priority is finally choosing to focus on you.

Along with that decision may come judgment by others—and, sometimes, even our own internal judgment—about what it means to step away. Yet, the reality is this: Career pauses are common. They’re a natural part of many professionals’ journeys.

In a LinkedIn study of 30,000 employees, 62% said that they had taken a career pause at some point in their professional lives (LinkedIn Talent Solutions, 2022). Returning to work after time away can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be a setback. It can be a chance to realign, refocus, and return wiser than before.

What You Can Learn During a Career Pause

A career pause can become a powerful classroom—a time to learn new things about yourself, determine what you truly want (and don’t want), and recalibrate your priorities. Research shows that structured time away from work can improve decision making, increase innovation, and boost career satisfaction (DiDonna, 2025).

In 2019, I faced an unexpected career pause due to health issues. During and after that experience, I gained some insights on the benefits of this unexpected, unplanned-for pause. I was diagnosed with severe hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), a debilitating pregnancy condition that left me on a feeding tube, fighting for not only my life but my daughter’s, too. My daughter survived, and so did I, but it was a tough season: As I navigated my healing journey while simultaneously adjusting to my role as a new mom, I ended up being out of the workforce for more than 2 years.

As brutal as that experience was, at times, it taught me incredibly valuable lessons. For example, I learned that most of us live in a world of dualities. You can be sad and grateful, uncertain and committed, exhausted and hopeful. Two things can be true at the same time. I also learned that asking for help is not weakness, it’s actually one of the most courageous things you can do. Letting people see you when you’re not “strong” is strength. As evidence by my own experience, career pauses can reveal strengths that you never knew you had—and can reshape the ways in which you lead, think, and live.

Lessons and Strengths That Often Emerge From a Career Pause

Here are a few insights that often emerge from a career pause that can add value when reentering the workforce.

  • Gaining perspective and clarity on what truly matters to you
  • Defining a clearer vision for your next career chapter
  • Recognizing new strengths and transferable skills you didn’t know you had
  • Building resilience and adaptability in the face of change
  • Redefining your sense of identity and purpose

These insights and lessons learned will make you a valuable leader and an asset to any team when you return to work.

Rediscovering “You”: Finding Your New Professional Identity

After a career pause, many professionals find themselves asking, “Who am I now?” or “What is my current professional identity?”

The reality is that you might not be the same version of yourself that you were before your career pause—and that’s not a bad thing. You’ve experienced different things, seen different sides of life, and are bringing those experiences to your professional identity now. Just like a computer updates its software, you’re allowed to upgrade your own “internal software.” Career pauses can reveal and open the door to new possibilities. Our identity isn’t just who we were or who we are now—it’s who we’re becoming as well (Bak et al., 2015). After a career pause, the vision you had for your career might change. You get to write your own story—one that blends what you’ve learned with what matters most to you now.

Questions to Help You Reimagine Your Career Path

If you’re in this phase right now, ask yourself:

  • What clarity have I gained from my career pause?
  • What values are non-negotiable to me now?
  • What truly energizes me—and is that different than before?
  • What kind of environment do I want to rejoin?

Rebuilding Confidence After a Career Pause

Many professionals reentering the workforce after a career pause experience a drop in confidence, feelings of imposter syndrome, or a fear of being “behind” (Schindelheim, 2023). It’s common to worry about skill gaps or to question whether you still belong in your field. Give yourself grace, patience, and plenty of self-compassion. Studies actually show that more than half of professionals say they are better at their jobs after leaving the workplace, and 69% say that their pause gave them perspective and helped them figure out what they wanted from life (LinkedIn Corporate Communications, 2022).

Rebuilding confidence doesn’t happen overnight: It comes from small, intentional actions. It comes from allowing yourself to start where you are with no judgement—and from giving yourself the same kindness you’d offer a friend. For high-achieving, high-functioning professionals, this can feel especially challenging.

Steps to Rebuild Confidence After a Career Pause

As you’re considering your transition back into the workplace, and what that will look like, break it down into small, manageable steps:

  1. First, decide when you’ll be ready to return.
  2. Once you do return, the next question might be one of these:
    1. What do I want my career to look like now?”
    2. “How do I want to grow from here?”

Here are a few ways to begin rebuilding your confidence after a career pause:

  • Reconnect with your network.
    • Reach out to former colleagues, mentors, and friends. These relationships can open doors and remind you of your value.
  • Celebrate small wins.
    • Write down the skills that you’ve gained during your pause as well as any wins—no matter how big or how small—you’ve had.
  • Create a confidence mantra.
    • Choose words that empower you. For example: “I am valuable, capable, and bring meaningful experience to any organization.”
    • Post those words somewhere visible—such as on your bathroom mirror or as part of your phone’s background.
  • Seek mentorship and/or coaching.
    • You don’t have to do this alone. Guidance and accountability can help you navigate the transition with clarity and courage.

Returning to the workforce after a career pause doesn’t have to be about picking up where you left off—you can move forward on an entirely new path using everything that you’ve gained along the way.

The Bottom Line: Career Pauses Can Move You Forward

Although career pauses can feel scary and sometimes filled with unknowns, they also offer something unique—a beautiful opportunity to redefine who you are, reset your priorities, and maybe even explore parts of yourself that you never had space for until now. Career pauses are not detours—in fact, they can actually be professional accelerators (Ruch, 2025).

Nothing in life is static—including who you are. As Dr. Susan David states in her book, Emotional Agility (2016), “Transitions are not just periods of change—they’re invitations to grow.”

You’ve got this! And we’re cheering you on every step of the way.

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References

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Author Bio

Kari Dermer, AuD, CPC, is a certified career and leadership coach and co-owner of dB Coaching Group—where she supports audiologists and speech-language pathologists in building meaningful careers without sacrificing their well-being. She brings more than 15 years of experience in leadership, mentorship, and coaching to the communication sciences and disorders community.

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